Water balloons are a Blackham staple every summer. In part, because Grayson has made the most awesome water balloon filler. Not every family has one of these if you can believe that. I makes creating an arsenal of balloon bombs easy and fun ... and a little wet. Crazy Blackham boys! Here they are in action!
Friday, July 26, 2019
Friday, June 14, 2019
Skydiving!
Belated Blogging - this will be backdated to June 3, 2019
"Mom, I'm going skydiving" ... Keaton was over 18 and didn't even need a parental signature or anything. I'm not one to jump from a plane, but I guess it was something Keaton wanted to try. Pictures are part of the process, and I had Keaton write up his memories of the event.
It started as a joke when me and my friend Daud considered going skydiving when we were thinking of things to do for his birthday. It had always been an idea, but no one in our friend group had actually done it. One night, Daud and I finally pulled the trigger and said we’re going to do it for his birthday. We were both so excited in the moment, not thinking ahead. The next day, I got on the skydiving website and went through all of the precautions and paperwork to prepare for our journey in the sky. I got our tickets booked for the morning of Daud’s birthday, and the second I clicked and made the purchase, my heart sank. That was the first moment it became real in my head. That I was going to jump out of a plane, thousands of feet in the air, above the mountains. I immediately texted Daud and he said he was freaking out too. So we’re off to a great start! As the days went on with the big day getting closer and closer, the anxiety would come and go blended with adrenaline and also tears. Overall, we were hyped.
On the day of his birthday, Daud comes to my house and we make waffles for breakfast. It’s 11:00 and we start making the drive out to Tooele in complete silence. Knowing the time and date of when your life is going to end is pretty gnarly. I don’t know why, but I was expecting some huge facility made of brick with UTAH SKYDIVE in big blocky led letters pointed at a parking lot and there would be multiple sets of double doors. But alas, when we get to the place, it’s down this abandoned road with a big old white tent. That’s the place. We walk inside, now content with how our lives were lived, and we tell the receptionist our reservation, sign a couple papers saying when we die we’re not allowed to sue, and then watch a cheesy tutorial video. We start getting our harnesses attached and laced up, got, introduced to our tandem instructors and they were both really awesome guys. Now we just wait for our plane to get prepared and ready for takeoff with a load of other people.
Daud and I sat outside the tent toward the massive landing zone. The skydiving crew said there was a group ahead of us that was getting ready to jump, so we stepped out and looked in the sky for a plane. I looked to the left and there was a plane about 2000 feet in the air and I looked at Daud and said, “Okay that’s not too bad. We can do that.” Then, my instructor tapped me on the shoulder to tell me that’s not the plane they’re jumping from. We look directly up from where we are standing and there’s another plane 13000 feet up and it’s smaller than the size of an ant on the floor. Mine and Daud’s hearts dropped along with our jaws. When the crew ahead of us started jumping you couldn’t even see them they were so small. They made it to the ground high on adrenaline. They look at me and Daud and tell us that our plane is ready and it’s our turn. Go time.
About a dozen of us in a small propeller airplane zigzagging our way up and up higher and higher for about 15 minutes. We make it to the top, get strapped in, goggles on. The people ahead of us opened the door and started jumping out the plane dropping like flies and me and Daud are just scooting forward like we’re inmates about to walk the plank on a pirate ship. I go first. Right before we jump, my instructor told me, “don’t forget to tuck in your legs and fall like you’re doing a backflip so I can release the stability chute. Don’t want it to get caught up! Alright let’s go!” Yeah okay. 1... 2... jump.
I saw the plane above me as I backflip towards the earth. I flip around, my instructor taps me on the shoulder, indicating I can release my arms and legs to fully free fall. It was the loudest sound I’ve ever heard; falling for 50 seconds at 120 mph. It was breezy, but that’s the last concern on my mind. I’m gonna die. Oh well, who cares, might as well enjoy this crazy view for my last moments. We can see over the Wasatch Mountains (keep in mind, we’re on the other side of the smaller mountains west of the Wasatch Mountains. It was a little hard to catch a breath, but every time I could, I immediately used it to yell at the top of my lungs of enjoyment. You can see all over the valley, both Utah Lake and the Great Salt Lake.
My instructor pulls the chute and we jerk forward. He takes off my goggles and plugs my nose so I can blow and pop my ears. The satisfaction of your ears popping with that much adrenaline... so nice. People might think that once the chute is pulled that’s its smooth sailing all the way to the bottom. It could be, but not for me. He gave me the handles to control the direction of the parachute and it’s like a customized, insanely fast rollercoaster. That feeling that you get when you’re going really fast and making a sharp turn on a roller coaster where your head feels like it’s being pushed into your shoulders as you feel the G-Force almost separate your body. Yeah that. Not smooth sailing for me it was awesome. As you near closer to the surface of Earth, you start thinking how’s it’s been so long since you’ve been on land and at the same time you’ve only been in the air for 2 minutes but you don’t want it to end, but you wonder again what gravity feels like. Still hundreds of feet in the air, there’s that thought like the chute can still rip and we’re going crashing down. So there’s still adrenaline from that fear.
Eventually, we make it to the ground and lay the chute flat. Almost feeling reborn and I’m so happy. Daud made it to the ground and he runs over to me to tell me about it, and well, he had a similar experience. It was the greatest 3 minutes of my life.
Sunday, June 9, 2019
Keaton ... Class of 2019
High school for Keaton. I think it was as much a social experience as an academic one. Cheering on school teams, going to dances, leaving for lunch, hanging with friends. He got a 4.0 his final quarter though. A couple years ago at Callahan's graduation, I was so stressed (I don't do well with crowds and chaos, no parking, no seating, hoping the car didn't get towed) that I texted Keaton right then and there and asked "Do I have to come to your graduation?" ... I went.
It was at the Maverick Center again, like Callahan's two years ago (Landon's had been downtown in the Vivent Arena). Instead of trying to have FIVE school graduations in one day there, the lesson had been learned, and there were just three. Time enough in between that hopefully one group had left before the next school came. Parking (getting IN anyway) wasn't really an issue. Cal and Kate and her parents had gone earlier than us and saved us some seats (Kate's brother was also graduating). So overall, this year wasn't AS stressful for me.
I didn't know as many of the speakers this year, but the valedictorian was one of Keaton's good buddies. As the kids came in to sit, they had it alternate boy/girl (until the end, as there were a lot more girls than boys in this graduating class). But as I was watching Keaton and crew during the program, I saw some squirming, and the guys changed seats so they were sitting together and would get their diplomas one after the other. They keep things interesting!
Grayson had a derby scheduled, and it was a little (or a lot) stressful trying to get out of the parking lot and make it there on time. Keaton hit the "Senior Sunset" school activity graduation night. Held at West Valley Fitness Center. There was ice skating, swimming, a rock wall ... lots to do, lots to eat. There were a couple of friend parties on Friday night, and then over the weekend we had a family dinner out to Tepankaki to celebrate ourselves. ConGRADulations Keaton!
Thursday, June 6, 2019
Keaton - School Snapshot
Keaton Through The Years ... School Pictures
School pictures ... every fall, parents get the information to buy packages of overpriced pictures, but there IS something to be said for the school photos. They do catch the kids year to year and it's fun to look back, and especially to see them side-by-side. The first photo was Landon's kindergarten year, and I wasn't really planning on getting Callahan and Keaton's pictures take too, but I did. The flag shirt was 2004, and 2005 (Pikachu) was Keaton's kindergarten year. I can't remember if I forgot about picture day, or I had thought he'd take the jacket off ... I wasn't planning on a picture with Pikachu! The 11th grade photo (2017) I had to scan from the yearbook. I think I may have forgotten about pictures that year ... still taken for the yearbook and activity card, but not one I ever got a print copy of.
... and for elementary school, there were the class compilations too. Back in the olden days, we'd actually take GROUP pictures, but then it was easier to miss people who might not have made it rather than just plugging them into a "class" photo like they do now. Fun to remember friends and neighbors and teachers over the years ...
I'll have to get Keaton to write up some school memories. As he started kindergarten at Columbia, he had his brothers there. Callahan would have been in 2nd and Landon in 5th. I remember that the favorite teachers were Kochevar (1st) and Burnside (5th). He was on the Student Council in 6th grade, got a couple nice awards in 9th, and played on the 9th grade basketball team at West Hills, and the sophomore team at Copper Hills. And of course where it all ends up ... Graduation! You can check out all the "school" posts for other peeks at Keaton in class over the years ...
Monday, April 22, 2019
Easter 2019
Belated Blogging - This will be backdated to April 2019
Easter was on April 21 this year. For us, it started on Saturday, with a Westra get together. Normally bringing the filled eggs had been my job, but with only four little ones this year, my mom said she'd handle it. She had overbought candy earlier for the LRC game. I still went out to the shed to grab some Easter stuff. All our "ears" and some little games and such. I frosted sugar cookies and got them prepped to take. We headed out around 12:30. Cal had K8's brother's bachelor party, so we missed him. #1 and Sol came. Hubs ducked out of the party once to grab some diet Coke, and then again to check out Snyder's Meats. He likes his meats!
We got pictures in the ears of a few families,
and if I leave my phone unattended ... I get photos like the ones above.
Silly Keaton!
Mom sent all the girls home with a bouquet of roses. We barely got home before #5 and I had to head out to his basketball games. They won both. The first one was an easy win, the second one was a little more intense. Back at home, I prepped the "pie" crust for a dessert to bring tomorrow (Blackham side) and made some jello cubes. I's also make rolls, and Gray was on deck to smoke a ham. I spaced off "easter bunny" duties until after I'd retired, but figured I'd beat the boys up anyway.
Woke around 7:00 ... plenty of time to beat the boys up, getting Easter out. I didn't have much. Some years Easter has been like Christmas, with tons of stuff. Pretty basic this year, just some candy and a few little toys for the younger boys. We had a big breakfast. I'd got the roll dough made before breakfast, and after breakfast, rolled out orange rolls. A little later shaped the remaining dough into dinner rolls. I finished up the "Cool Whip" dessert and made some rice krispie treats with sprinkles. Baked up the orange rolls and got them frosted and ready and baked the dinner rolls (one pan got smashed on the way to Maga's house ... see the photo below. Oops!) Gray smoked the ham and we packed up and headed out. Aunt Ana had her hub's family there too. Unfortunately, the weather wasn't nice enough to spread outside. I'd brought the basket with all the ears and Easter toys, and the littles there were pretty into it all. Aunt Olivia lead a scavenger hunt.
Cal and K8 made it, so we got some "ears" pictures with them. We missed Keaton who had to work (Sam was especially sad he wasn't there) and Sol and Landon who had activities with her side of the family.
Friday, April 12, 2019
Business Office Specialist
A new class offered in the schools is "Business Office Specialist" ... it's a course featuring Microsoft Office, Excel and Powerpoint. All good stuff to know. The kids learn, then take a test. If they pass, they get a certificate which is good for a resume, showing possible employers the individual has proficiency in said computer skills. I know I use Excel all the time.
Coop took the class in 9th grade. It was taught by his favorite teacher Mrs. Rees, and he had a couple buddies in the class too. He was SO stressed about taking the test though. He did take and pass the test for Excel and was happy about that. Not enough to show his face in the picture, but still.
Coop ended up being the TA for Mrs. Rees the following semester. In his spare time, he continued working on his skills, and took and passed the test for Word, and then for PowerPoint.
I guess I need to get a couple more frames.
Sunday, March 10, 2019
Blackham Bunch Goes Cruisin
Grayson likes to get away. He'd had his eye on cruise and he made it happen February 2019. Landon and Sol couldn't go while awaiting Sol's residency, and I ... well, I'm not a traveler. Kate joined the crew though, so the super six were off, Saturday, February 2. Heading out from home (above ... Keaton has a fanny pack!) and on the airplane (below).
The crew flew to California and stayed at the Queen Mary ... which is a hotel/ship.
Most memorable there was the grand buffet for brunch.
While waiting in Cali, they hit an aquarium.
Then it was time to get on the BIG boat ...
On board the boat
Bingo was actually something everyone enjoyed, and Callahan even won BIG ... well, $1000, which was split five ways, as other people there also got bingo; then the winnings were applied to the bill rather than given out cash (which would have been a bit more fun).
Soft serve ice cream was the real favorite on the ship!
There were two port stops
There was a shuttle ship to take passengers from the big boat to the shore. The first stop was Catalina Island. The crew had hoped to go paragliding, but the weather wasn't cooperating. They did some sightseeing. The second stop was Ensenada ...
... and all the while, this seagull and Keaton had altercations ...
j/k ... just random seagull shots ;)
While the weather wasn't as warm as they would have liked ... back home in Utah, we got hit with a huge snowstorm! Schools were cancelled for the first time in ... forever! I honestly can't remember them even canceling school. And the Blackham boys missed it! But that was one less day they'd have to make up, as everyone missed it. They also missed the Superbowl, as it aired while they were out to sea.
Writing in retrospect ... jump forward just over a year and the cruise ship scene is a bit different!
2020 Coronavirus Pandemic!
Monday, February 4, 2019
Retirement for Pammy
Pam started working at the Utah State Capital in 1990. She worked there until 2019 when she retired. We have photos when Grayson took little Landon up to visit Maga at Halloween. Maga said she might work late and then stop in to see the boys as they attended Prom there. Cooper did a "job shadow" day with Maga in 2017.
When Pam retired in February of 2019, she posted this video and statement to her Facebook. There were so many pictures I hadn't seen before. I wanted to make sure the video was preserved and easily located. So it's uploaded to our YouTube channel, and showcased here on the blog.
RETIREMENT TIME: Twenty-eight and one-half years ago, I sought a job within state government when my husband was diagnosed with a rare form of cancer (an insulinoma) for which the doctors could not tell us prognosis. I sought work in the Attorney General's Office on beautiful Capitol Hill, and worked under Jan Graham's administration for her Criminal Deputy, Reed Richards. I worked within the Attorney General's Office for fourteen years, and then took a variety of other jobs within state government -- working in the Governor's Office for Governors Jon Huntsman and Gary Herbert, and later working for Kathleen Clarke in the Public Lands Policy Coordinating Office. What began as personal heartbreak for our family in 1990, has turned out to be an unsurpassed educational experience, with a variety of growth opportunities, a front row seat witnessing some important issues unfolding, and WONDERFUL enduring friendships with countless top notch professionals. It now makes sense to step back and spend more time with my family. I am profoundly greatful to everyone who has enriched my life throughout the past many years, and bid this chapter of my life a very fond farewell.
Thursday, January 31, 2019
January 2019
January ... a new year. We started it off with pastry wreath per usual. Good thing Clay learned how to master it, because Maga was off to Seattle to spend some time with her other grandkids ;) New calendars up around the house. Hopefully some New Years Resolutions? All the boys have Fitbits! We have a wide variety in the kinds of devices. Jen added earbuds to her audio arsenal and is getting in even more "reading" as she listens while driving, cleaning, shoveling snow (we got dumped on a few times). Basketball games and board games. Sol's birthday. January ...
Monday, December 31, 2018
2018 In Review
2018 ... I really wasn't good about getting my blogging done. As I write up this review, organizing it into categories, I can "see" the blog posts in my head (similar to scrapbooking in my sleep in days gone by). I really have NO excuses. With the boys getting older and doing things on their own, I have the time to sit down and dedicate to recording the family history. I'm going to attempt to hit most of these bullet points with their own post (backdating as needed, as I like the blog in chronological order). Of course, I still have some from LAST year I should catch up on too. But like Scrapbooking, better late than never, and create as inspiration strikes and then put the memories where they belong in the timeline. It's all good ...
- Animals: Our four ducks made it through the winter, and the two girls started laying eggs around Easter. Then sadness struck, as Gabby died. We adopted three new girls and had a lot of eggs all summer. Nothing new with Oreo and Joy, but Landon brought Toby over a lot, and then he and Sol got Nala too. Our final fish turned belly up. Cal and Kate's hamster visits.
- Girls: Landon and Sol got engaged earlier in the year, and married on September 1. Cal and Kate are still totally tight and planning for the future. Keaton has hit several school dances but doesn't really "date" ... neither do Cooper or Colton. Unfortunately, Gray and I haven't gotten out much either. Other Westra Weddings ... Janika, Corin, Connor and Kaden.
- Garden: Tons of tomatoes, a zillion zucchini and a plethora of pumpkins. Sunflowers too.
- Grayson's (and Grandma's) Garage: It was quite the project. Tons of time and money and rearranging and perfecting. Had to get a storage unit for extra stuff. Gladiator strips and siding on the walls. I gave the grandparent's a tour and sparked them redoing their garage (and grandpa's cave ... Staircase to Nowhere).
- Grayson's Getaways: Off to Orlando in January with work for the Builder's Convention. A quick family trip to Seattle (sans Cal and I) in April. Work trips to California and Phoenix in May. Moab (work, but fun, rafting and razor rides) and Bear Lake (Gray and the littles), in July. Crashing Kolby's birthday in Portland in September, then a quick Canada/Seattle trip in November.
- Gray Gourmet: Grayson continues to smoke all sorts of yumminess. His latest foray into gourmet is Sous Vide. We enjoy his experimentation as he tries to perfect his trade. He added a broiler and refrigerator to his garage. His guacamole is legendary, he set out creative Caprese salad and made pretzel bites for the first (but not last) time.
- JenB's Baking: brownies, cookies, breads. New Grinch cookies.
- Gadgets: Alexa. Ring.
- Games: Switch, Jackbox, and all the others.
- Segway: We got a Segway.
- Summer Stuff: Many trips to Pineview.
- Room Rearrange: With Landon moving out ... all the boys have their own rooms. New beds.
- Medical Moments: Colton's knee. Anxiety issues. Blood Brothers (donating blood and plasma).
- Musical Moments: We went to Hale's Aida ... Gray fell in love with some of the music. The Greatest Showman was big in theaters. Landon was able to go see Hamilton with Olivia. We had an Itunes family membership for streaming songs, but switched to Spotify at the end of the year.
- Halloween: Painting pumpkins. Cal and Kate in scrubs (April and Matthew), Landon and Sol dressing up the animals. Connor's wedding. Colton off trick or treating. Keaton's Star Trek group.
- Basketball: Colton's Copper Hills Grizzlies wrapped up their relationship as the team members went separate ways after Spring. He's continued playing with his Wolves (a grade up) and started with the West Jordan Bantam league. Keaton enjoys being part of the crowd cheering on the high school team, always dressing up for the themes. As far as play, Keaton is doing Junior Jazz again, but Cooper is sitting it out this year. Cal continues to play in a men's league.
- Fitness, Fitbits and 5ks: Family 5k, Dirty Dash, home gym, Fitbit family again. Jen Zumba.
- School: Landon and Callahan have been attending SLCC, working toward their associate degrees. Cal switched his focus to electrical apprenticeship. Sol graduated. Keaton started his senior year at Copper Hills. Colton wrapped up his elementary experience, and he and Cooper are both at Elkridge (7th and 9th respectively). School boundaries were realigned (or not really, in our area) causing a lot of speculation and stress. Cooper's school anxiety amped up. Summer homework (How We Roll).
- Work: Grayson had a good year at Symphony Homes. Landon had been working at Discover but is making a change for next year. Callahan had enjoyed UPS, but then started working full time as an apprentice electrician. KFC keeps Keaton busier than we like.
- Derby Daze: With the LDS church announcement about pulling out of Boy Scouts, we aren't sure what the future holds for Pinewood Derbies here in Utah ... but Gray had 45 this year! With Keaton working at KFC so much, Cooper has become Dad's right-hand man, although all the boys helped out at least once during the year.
I made the monthly "1 Second Every Day" videos throughout the year, and I combined them together for an all-inclusive annual review.
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