Thursday, June 11, 2026
Monday, April 13, 2026
Four Blackham Boys and a 15k
Wednesday, March 18, 2026
St. Patty's ~ 2026
Wednesday, December 31, 2025
BlackhamBunch ~ 2025 at a Glance
Jen and Gray and their five Blackham Boys live in West Jordan. Gray is still with Symphony Homes. He had an active year, with "75 Hard" and 16 half-marathons/four triathlons and a 100 mile bike ride. Jen continues baking sourdough, teaching Zumba and is all about books! Landon shifted from the West Jordan LKL location to the Spanish Fork store, and found an apartment in American Fork. He's added a girlfriend, a puppy and a kitty to these changes! Cal supervises quality control for Camson Electric and his wife Kate is working towards her Masters at UVU. They enjoyed a trip to Italy. Keaton works with Cal at Camson and received his Journeyman license. It's been a "OneWheel/Unicycle" year for him. Cooper is moving up at DLP Unlimited, added forklift training to his resume. He ran his first half-marathon and is always up for pickleball. Colton finished up his first year at Clackamas and is back on the basketball team as a sophomore.
There were multiple posts throughout the year, and four quarterly reports compiling all the events from those three month periods. Here's a compiled/annual 1secEverday2025 ...
https://youtu.be/rdrDiI_yrS0
Tuesday, December 30, 2025
Blackham Bunch Quarterly Report - Q4/2025
Wrapping up 2025 with a recap of the activities in October, November and December. There are the usual holidays; Halloween, Thanksgiving, Christmas, and birthdays for Jen/Gray and Colton. The usual stuff ... pickleball, basketball. Hale Theater, Wicked, Bargatzee, Derek's Derby, Fisher House, and a few trips to Portland too ...
- Gray a Go-Go: GB was running races; Antelope half, Mission Bay Triathlon, Haunted Half, Portland Pumkin Half, Snow Canyon Half, Thankful Half. A little getaway to Wendover too.
- Travel: Jen and Gray flew out to Washington, to catch some of Colton's preseason scrimmages, then the whole family made it out at the end of December to Portland/Clackamas (Bamboo Sushi Green Machines, Salt&Straw, three games/WINS at Clackamas, seeing Colton's apartment and visiting Kolby and Jami). Cal and Kate also had a Wyoming getaway in October. Gray flew out to San Diego for his triathlon, and to Portland (didn't connect with Colton) for a comedy show and a half, also in October.
- Basketball: Cal continued playing in a number of men's leagues, alas, second place at both SJ and Tville this season. Colton's sophomore year at Clackamas started up, preseason scrimmages and games, some stitches.
- Seeing Shows: Every year we try to attend at show at Hale with the folks. We saw Sister Act in October. Olivia set up a girls night out to see Wicked (part 2). GrayBlack and his buddies went to a see Rory Scovell in Portland, and then Symphony had a Bargatzee night, and GB was able to snag tickets for Keaton and Coop to attend too.
- Keaton's Adventures: Still hitting the One-Wheel and Unicycle, Keaton also got out Canyoneering and other outdoor adventures with friends. He also wrote up some of his current interests (as a Christmas present to Mom) ... perfect for blog posts (upcoming).
- Minecraft Mondays (and one weekend retreat): Coop and his buddies have been gathering virtually every other Monday to play Minecraft. One weekend in December, they pulled an all-nighter as well.
- Spotify Wrapped: Coop and Keaton obsess over this every year!
- Birthdays: The boys came over on Jen's Bday for cake, and then we did the traditional Tepanyaki dinner over the weekend (between Jen and Gray's bdays), more cake after dinner (a lemon jello cake that fell just a bit). Gray had a few birthday celebrations with work/friends. Colton stayed in Oregon for his birthday, to spend it with Haley. He got two cakes, one there, and then a belated birthday cake when he got home to Utah (home for Christmas).
- Holidays: Halloween costumes from Landon (Holy Guacamole) and Colton/Haley (firefighter and dalmation). Coop pointed out the DOTS (Colton's nickname) in our Halloween candy. Lots of pumpkins from the garden, but we didn't carve any. We hosted Thanksgiving and celebrated Christmas with the Blackham and Westra side of the family.
#JenBsBooks ~ 2025
Monday, December 15, 2025
Vera vs Stuffies
Costco carries these cute stuffed chicken doggy toys. I've bought a few for Vera, and around Halloween, there were two "pirate" versions. I bought both. While they are some of the sturdier dog toys, they still don't last that long when once introduced to Miss Vera.
Cal and Kate had visited, and taken home one of the chickens, but it wasn't long before Cal asked if the second was available. It was time. He took some pictures, the new vs the one Vera had been playing with. One leg gone. Back and head opened, stuffing out. How long before the new chicken is in the same shape? Vera looks so innocent in the picture!
Vera is "ruff" on stuffies! Another post not long after the chicken ...
Tuesday, December 2, 2025
Thanksgiving 2025
Olivia brought a cute turkey veggie tray and Ana brought drinks, a salad and some dessert. Landon brought some rolls and a pumpkin cheesecake that everyone raved over. Grayson complained a little, about how much prep goes into the feast prep for about 15 minutes of eating!
Sunday, November 30, 2025
Keaton Canyoneering
Tuesday, November 18, 2025
Blackhams go to Bellevue
Thursday, November 13, 2025
Derby Deja Vu
Tuesday, November 11, 2025
Colton Hits the Hardwood (Literally)
Tuesday, October 7, 2025
Run Gray Run (even in the Rain)
I had charted a big run up north and with the rain in the forecast was looking forward to giving it a go. After last week's disappointing half (for me) it was a chance to redeem myself, as if that is even a thing. I could see storm clouds in the west as I got to the office - some lightning. Up north I got prepped and on the run right around 6:00. Conditions were great - cool, not cold, no wind - few cars and pretty peaceful. As I reached mile 4 or so I could tell the storm had moved toward the east, where I was running. Some light rain began to build.
Within about 10 minutes the rain was in full swing - not torrential but very steady and pretty heavy. Soon a wind from the south was blowing. This would be a headwind for around mile 5 when my route turned to head back toward the office. I wish I had a camera that could show the conditions. It was something to see. None of this bothers me. The only thing that concerns me in a rainstorm is lightning. The odds are generally VERY slim at getting hit by lightning but it's still intimidating. I had one lightning strike seemingly directly above me at mile 5. There would be 3 or 4 other strikes that didn't seem particularly close like the first one. That was about it for lightning.The rain began to ease around mile 7 or so though the wind kept steady, pushing against me. But I felt good. I wasn't gassing out. My legs kept their strength and didn't feel heavy. It was starting to lighten up around mile 7 or 8 and by mile 9 I turned back toward the north and the headwind was now a tailwind. Nice. Rolled back into the office feeling very content. 10.28 miles in all. Not a half but still a major run by my measurements. This might have been my favorite run of the year - it cycled from dark to light, from dry to rainy, from calm to windy - all in the same run. My body felt great. What a morning :)
It had stormed quite a bit the night before too ... lots of lightening. I know that is something that Keaton likes to catch on camera (A Little Look at Lightning) so I checked in with him to see if he'd taken any pictures during this storm. He had ...
Tuesday, September 30, 2025
Blackham Bunch Quarterly Recap ~ Q3
July, August, September ~ 2025
- Races: Gray has been a little step crazy (Symphony competition) and he had one 62k day! He did multiple half-marathons, two triathlons, the "Rooster Ride" (100mile bike) and a 10k with Colton and Cooper. Coop also did his first half marathon.
- Basketball: Cal had several men's leagues and tournaments going, and pulled Colton in to join while he was home for the summer. Colton did a few tournaments with his buddies too. In July we got the sad news that Colton's coach has passed away (he had been having some health issues, but still unexpected).
- Landon's New Position/Location/Companions: LKL asked Landon if he'd consider a new position at the Spanish Fork location. To reduce the commute, he moved from his Midvale apartment to one in American Fork. With BlackhamBoy muscle and Gray's trailer, they got everything shifted. And if that wasn't enough change, add in a new roommate (Valentina) and two furry friends (kitty Sabrina and puppy Pedro). Valentina changed jobs too, so newness all around! Landon promised he's still commute to family gatherings and pickle ... and he has!
- Work/School: All the guys have stayed busy at their respective jobs. There was a bit of a shake-up at Coop's work, which has increased his responsibility (and pay). He's also trained to drive a forklift in the warehouse. Coop's work/DLP also happily welcomed Colton back, instant full-time employment for him for the summer. Nice that the boys could carpool (which came in handy when we needed to get cars into the shop). Colton got settled back in his apartment in Oregon and classes started at the end of September. Kate left her job and is pursuing a Masters at UVU.
- Getaways: Cal&Kate had a St. George getaway. Colton joined his girlfriend/her family in Vegas. Cal&Keaton had a Moab retreat with work/Camson, and Grayson had his own Moab retreat. Many of his races ended up being overnighters as well.
- Holidays etc: For the 4th of July, several of us went to watch the West Jordan drone show. Landon and Valentina had been to one in Park City as well. Jen went to see the "Parade Preview" at the expo center. G&J had their 33rd anniversary, and we celebrated birthdays for Coop, Keaton and Landon. The five brothers raced go-karts, and we went out to Rodizio for dinner. Lots of birthday cake!
- Coop's Crew: A couple of Coop's friends got married, and Cooper had some luncheons and receptions. He and his buddies also gather virtually online for "Minecraft Monday" every other week. One of Coop's buddies came over to check out some of our old Gameboy supplies.
- Extended Family: Gray and Jen got out for a Westra dinner date with Mom&Dad and Scott&Amy. Grayson and Scott got out biking a time or two. Landon and Valentina joined Olivia for a dinner, and Olivia gathered all the nephews for a "Top Golf" night out. She also insisted on taking Colton out (with Haley and Coop) before he returned to Oregon. I'm thinking there was a haircut house call sometime this quarter too.
- Injuries/Illness & Repairs: Colton fell on his foot badly during one of his basketball games. He went into the Instacare just to make sure nothing was broken. That sidelined his activity for a couple of weeks. Landon was sick enough that he went to the Instacare as well, and it was good he went as he needed an antibiotic to treat an infection. The stove in the kitchen has been having issues off and on ... the repair cost is $$$, but the stove has actually been working since the diagnosis, so fingers crossed that it continues. Colton's Charger failed emissions and we had to have it into the shop several times for fixes before it finally passed. New tires and a new windshield as well, and we hope it gets him through at least another year.
- Iphone Upgrade: It was past due ... Jen finally upgraded her iphone. She no longer has a home button! It's nice that the process is so painless. Easy transfer!
- One Wheel/Unicycle: Fully joining in the "one wheel" community, Keaton added another vehicle to his stash ... a unicycle (not the bicycle type!) He joins community rides with other enthusiasts and does a lot of solo rides and rides with friends.
- Disk Golf: Colton got into disk golf while he was home this summer. There are several local courses and he and his friends hit several of them. He introduced it to Haley (she flew in at the end of the summer for a few days, then kept Colton company on the drive back to Oregon).
- Super Saturday Sourdough: Jen was asked to teach a little class on sourdough for the stake "Super Saturday" ... it took some prep and energy, but was a good experience. A good trial a couple weeks before with niece Addie who came over for a lesson (and shared a picture of her first successful loaf shortly after).
- Monarch! A flash of orange, an egg ... a little caterpillar, a chrysalis, and a beautiful butterfly. It was a monarch summer (the experience got its own blog post/write up).
Monday, September 29, 2025
Back to Clackamas ...
Colton's summer extended into September this year, but it was time to head back to Clackamas. To school, and basketball, and a little closer to his girlfriend (at least in the same state!) Haley had flown in to spend a few days in Utah, and then keep Colton company on the long drive back. They left early Wednesday morning on September 3 and arrived safely that night.
Adjusting to life back in Oregon has been pretty easy, it was really nice not having to set up the room again and just being able to come back to the apartment right as we left it.Haley met her mom and made it home, but hasn't been able to get back up to Oregon City since then as she's been pretty busy with working and getting ready to move herself to her house in Corvallis. I've still gone down to Lebanon a couple times, one time we went and watched her brother's football game, he's the head football coach at a high school called Scio. I'm heading back down to her house later today because we made little "boo" baskets for each other filled with little gifts. But I'll have to head back home early tomorrow morning because we have a workout with Coach Scott at 11:00, he's bringing up another group with lots of class of 26 kids and some returned missionaries.Basketball's been going well, practices look a little different with Stamme running them. We have been going pretty hard everyday, and we have some new faces. Starting with the returners, there's Connor, Sam, Lincoln, Reggie, Jkari, Kobe, and Brooklynd. So no Nick, JB, or Miles. The new guys' names are, Jayden, Tremayne, Luke, Shea, Brody, Bailey, Jace, Warren, and Omar. Jayden and Tremayne are both from Vegas, they came and visited last spring. Luke is from Utah, came up with Coach Scott in the spring, although I never played against him in high school or anything. Shea and Brody are from local schools, Brody actually being from the same high school as Connor and redshirted last year at Portland CC. I'm thinking Jace, Bailey, Omar, and Warren are probably going to be redshirts this year. But I am liking how the team looks, Jayden and Tremayne are both really good and Tre especially since he is a good big man, about 6'6 and is actually pretty good in the post. Right now I would think the starting lineup would probably look like me, Jayden, Connor, Luke or Lincoln, then Tremayne at the center.We went to Coach Weg's celebration of life last Saturday just at the college. There were lots of former players there so it was fun to see everyone. Gray even flew in from South Dakota. Vitaliy, Mason, Nick, JB, Miles all came as well. A bunch of us went and got tacos after, although I forgot to grab a picture.Still a little over a week out from school starting, not looking forward to that. My only in-person class this term is going to be a lab on Thursday nights, similar to what I had last spring. That will be a fun class though since a bunch of us all got it together. I'm pretty sure it's me, Connor, Brody, Lincoln, Sam, and Brooklynd.
It's been nice having extra time to get shots up outside of practice these few weeks.I did apply to a few places to work but haven't heard back quite yet.I had been trying to eat healthier this year, even counting all my calories and macros using this app that Steven showed me. I have kind of given up on the app already as it is kind of a hassle to always be inputting everything, but I am still making sure I'm eating better than I was last year. Not using my food stamps to just fill up my snack shelf again haha. Been eating lots of ground beef, but trying to make tastier meals with it. I've been commonly doing taco bowls and burger bowls. Usually at the beginning of the week I've been cooking up a batch of either chicken alfredo or stroganoff. I use a whole box of protein pasta when making them so they have a bit more protein in it. Although I couldn't find any protein egg noodles, so I just used rotini instead.That's about all I have for now. I'll try and take some more selfies to send back haha. I love you!
The basketball schedule is out ...
Saturday, September 27, 2025
Keaton and the Crew Leads/Moab Getaway
Thursday, September 18, 2025
Monarch Summer
I've posted about monarchs a couple of times before on the blog ... Monarch Memories 2021 and Monarch Release 2019 . We've kept milkweed and flowers in the yard in hopes of attracting the elusive orange winged beauties ... and it paid off again this year.
The milkweed in the front yard (featured in the 2021 experience) would grow so large and ungainly, I wanted to eventually eliminate it. I'd shifted some seeds/starts to the backyard, as milkweed will also grow in shady, low-water conditions, where I don't have a lot of other plants. While we still had some of the milkweed in the front, we now had three patches in the backyard as well.
I was sitting at my computer, positioned behind a window, looking into the backyard, when I saw a flash of orange ... I dropped what I was doing and grabbed my phone to double check (I had thought I'd seen a monarch earlier in the season, but it was so quick I hadn't been sure). But this time, I got photo proof, and happened to snap the shot right as Mrs. Monarch was laying an egg ...
It wasn't all without drama. I was a little worried the cooler temps in the house (I like my air conditioning) and thought Pilly might benefit from some natural exposure. I moved the enclosure out to the patio. I was sure to tell those who lived at home (Hubs, #4, #5) so that they wouldn't think something bad had happened, but #3 walked in without that info and exclaimed "oh no, Pilly! Where's Pilly?" I assured him Pilly was alright, just outside instead of on the kitchen table. But then ... Pilly was NOT in the enclosure. Really? There were a couple holes, but they were small. Of course Pilly was tiny, but still. There was a batch of milkweed three or four feet away, on the other side of the porch stairs, but that seemed like 1000 miles to a tiny caterpillar. No milkweed in any other direction. While I hoped maybe he'd somehow make it to the milkweed, I didn't hold out much hope.
There was a family text thread following all things caterpillar ...
A few days later, I glanced at the milkweed by the back porch and ... there was Pilly! He'd grown, had eaten a few leaves, left behind little poop pellets (that's actually the first thing I noticed). It was close to chrysalis time, so I moved him back into the enclosure in the kitchen, so we could keep an eye on him.
The whole family was over on August 31 (Keaton's birthday) when Pilly climbed to the side of the enclosure, right on the zipper (was he trying to get out again?) and formed the "J" ... I was trying to watch, as the transformation is pretty amazing, but I missed it. One look he was still a caterpillar, then next, he was a green blob. Still squirming, missed it by a minute! Over the next couple weeks the chrysalis continued it's transformation ... due to the placement in the enclosure, I wasn't able to get good pictures (and couldn't open it up either, good thing we only had one caterpillar in there, as I wasn't able to replace the milkweed).
Friday, September 12, Keaton stopped by again and noticed that the chrysalis had darkened. He came over again Saturday morning, hoping to witness the emergence. He and Coop went to a movie and while they were gone ... it happened. I was home, peeking at the enclosure every time I walked into the kitchen. One time I glanced over, I saw a larger shape, newly emerged, wings still wet. Once he (I do think it was a male, dots on the wings) moved, I was able to put a couple flowers in just in case he wanted to feed, but mostly he was just recovering, getting fully filled out. Keaton came over the next morning again and we let him handle the release.
While Pilly was in the chrysalis stage, I was in the kitchen and again, I saw a flash of orange out the window! I ran outside, and we had a monarch visiting, and again, we got a single egg ...
... as our enclosure was occupied, and we'd already been lucky enough to experience the monarch cycle, I decided we'd leave this egg in the wild, watching where we could. Unfortunately, the egg never hatched (non-fertilized?)











































